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martes, 10 de mayo de 2011

Amigas hasta que el “Matrimonio” nos separe

La semana pasada me encontraba en mi casa viendo tv, mientras cambiaba los canales una película llamó mi atención, mas por el titulo (“Amigas hasta que el matrimonio nos separe”) que por su contenido ya que a media película me aburrí. La cosa es que después me puse a pensar y la verdad es que en muchos casos ese titulo si se aplica, a que me refiero con esto? se preguntaran, bueno estoy segura de que en su grupo de amigas alguna ya se a unido, casado o lo que sea que implique convivir con su pareja, pues bien a partir de eso se notan cambios pro ejemplo: ya no hablan como antes, no salen como antes y a veces ni los mensajes contestan.
No es necesario que se separen de las amistades cuando se “casan” deben organizar su tiempo, además esto sirve para oxigenar la relación, el estar todo el tiempo juntas, hacer todo juntas desgasta la “magia” de la relación, deben tener su independencia sin olvidarse que tienen responsabilidades.  Tan cierto es esto que no solo se da con las lesbianas, también pasa en las relaciones hetero y los síntomas son los mismos:
  • No pueden conversar de ciertos temas porque su pareja esta ahí
  • No pueden salir sin su pareja (parece que estuvieran pegadas)
  • Si pides que te acompañen No van solas va la pareja
  • Si dices salidas solo Activas o solo Pasivas tu amiga no va porque no puede ir su pareja
  • En el Fb, Msn, o cualquier red social no sabes con quien estas Chateando porque su pareja tiene la clave
Y así infinidad de cosas, es normal que quieran pasan mucho tiempo juntas pero deben dejar tiempo y espacio entre Uds. Para que la relación no se asfixie, no descuidar a sus amistades, mantener sus actividades independientes, por amor de Dios!! Dense tiempo aunque sea para extrañarse.
Las amigas de este tipo de parejas simbióticas, llegan a sentir frustración ya que no cuentan con su amiga como antes, pero no desesperen algunas veces las indirectas ayudan a que la pareja entienda, o traten de hablar con su amiga en privado y díganle como se sienten, si aun así no entiende pues tranquilas, su amiga se dará cuenta de que se esta alejando y volverá. De todas maneras la etapa “caramelo” no durara siempre

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